You went on a date with a guy from Tinder, and you thought that you hit it off with him. But days go by, and he doesn't text you. Does this sound all too familiar? Unfortunately, it's more common than you think. Dating can be super confusing and frustrating, especially when a guy ends up ghosting you. Need some help demystifying dating? Here are seven reasons why he didn't text you after the first date:

1. He thinks you don't like him-1

1. He thinks you don't like him

Believe it or not, but a lot of guys are shy, and they are afraid of being rejected. He might have gotten the impression on your date that you don't like him. If he assumes you aren't interested, he won't text you to set up a second date. Ultimately, you might have to reach out to him if you want to see him again.

2. He's not ready for commitment-1

2. He's not ready for commitment

If the guy you went on a date with said he just got out of a relationship, he might not be ready to date again. Sometimes men go on dates to distract themselves, even though they have no intention of pursuing anything serious with anyone. But it's better he realizes this now than to continue leading you on.

3. He's dating multiple women at once-1

3. He's dating multiple women at once

You're probably not the only girl he's seeing. Most men like to casually date several women at a time before deciding which one to seriously pursue. He might not have texted you back because he's dating too many girls or he's found someone he thinks is a better match.

4. The date actually didn't go all that well-1

4. The date actually didn't go all that well

You might think your first date went super well, but there's a good chance that he didn't experience it the same way as you. Did he seem interested in you during the date? Was he engaged in conversation? Or was he staring at his phone the whole time? These could be some clues as to why he never texted you after the first date.

5. He's just not that into you

5. He's just not that into you

If the guy you went on a date with doesn't make the first move within 24-to-48 hours after the first date, he's probably just not that into you. Maybe your personalities didn't click, or there wasn't a strong romantic connection. It happens, and that's the whole point of dating -- to see if there's a future together.

6. He's too nervous

6. He's too nervous

Sometimes men just don't know how to make the first move when it comes to asking a girl out on a second date. He might also feel pressured to ask you out again, and he's freezing up because of it. While he might still want to pursue things with you, he also might just be too nervous.

7. He's playing games

7. He's playing games

Men do this all the time -- even if they enjoyed themselves on a first date, they'll wait 24-to-72 hours before texting you again. A lot of men don't want to come off as too desperate or clingy, so they like to play it cool early on during the first few dates.

Just move on

There could be tons of different reasons why the guy you went on a great first date with never texted to ask you on a second date. But if you really enjoyed your time with him, feel free to text and ask him on a second date. The worst that could happen is he ignores you or says no. If that happens, just move on. There is plenty of fish in the sea!

References
  1. "9 Reasons Why He Hasn't Called You Back After Your First Date," Narcity, n.d.
  2. "10 Reasons He Never Called After The First Date," StyleCaster, n.d.
  3. "Ask a Guy: Why do Guys Vanish After a Great First Date?," a new mode, n.d.

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